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This page
makes a recent addition to the website, and I should say a few
words about why I've added it. I was surfing "Yahoo
Answers", and I found many questions (and answers)
relating to "does hypnotherapy really work?" and all
of its derivatives. As I expect these days, largely the
feedback was extremely positive. There were plenty of
anecdotes of success, but still one or two opinions were
interspersed with misinformed comments based not on fact and
research but instead quite obviously on superstition and
mystery. Something I once heard someone say. Chinese Whispers.
One of these comments for instance was "It only works on
the weak minded". For me this brings a smile, because
it's a well known fact amongst those who know about these
things that in fact the opposite is true. Hypnosis is a
"skill" and one can improve ones ability to enter
hypnosis through practice.
It has been
over 150 years since James Braid coined the term
"Hypnosis". "Hypnos" is the Greek word for
sleep, and certainly the word itself carries an air of
mystery. A little known fact, is that Braid attempted to
recall the term hypnosis in favour of a much clearer title. He
realised that the very calm and comfortable state we now call
hypnosis was actually not "sleep" related at all. He
went on to re-title the state "Monoideism" from the
Latin roots meaning "Single-Idea". Alas, the new
title was disregarded. Hypnosis was the term that remained in
use, and 160 years later we are still culturally misinformed
as to the nature of this useful state of awareness. Monoideism
is in fact a much better description of what hypnosis is all
about. It is simply a calm focused state of awareness which
enables us to calm the internal chatter (physical, mental, and
emotional), in order to access our own inner clarity and
power. If we wish to achieve something specific then
monoideism affords us the perfect tool to become fully focused
on this "single-idea". When you consider that
hypnotherapy is well known for it's soothing calming
properties, one can begin to see why this is so when you
consider that it is really the focus on a single idea. When we
are anxious we say "My head's all over the place...I
can't think straight!" So the antidote to that is.....??
How about focusing on one thing at a time. Let's begin with
the one thing you know is going to help.
So in
considering the terrible misunderstanding that exists around
hypnotherapy I got to thinking about my clients. Many arrive
with a good idea of what hypnosis is all about and are
positive. Some are a little uncertain but willing to give it a
go. How many though, I wondered, who never make it as far as
making an appointment with me, would love to give it a go but
are too scared to? Or indeed too skeptical? Loads, I'll bet!
And to my mind this is a great tragedy. Why? Because hypnosis
and hypnotherapy is a really fantastic tool. It really DOES
work! Furthermore, I know that those people too scared to try
it are probably the ones who could benefit most from it,
because being scared of stuff is being anxious, and
hypnotherapy, properly applied, is a great tool for overcoming
anxiety. So it's frustrating for me to know that there are
people out there who want help, need help, and are willing to
get help, but who don't consider hypnotherapy (which is the
treatment most likely to deliver real help!) because they are
scared away from hypnosis by the misinformation surrounding
it. This is a tragedy. Lives are ruined by disabling phobias,
depressions and anxieties, and for many people suffering these
difficulties, help is available if they only could push
through the misinformation. The same is true for the skeptics
amongst us. I'm all for healthy skepticism. I count myself a
very critical thinker. I want to see something with my own
eyes before I sign on the dotted line or "buy in",
so I have every empathy with the skeptical point of view. Its
healthy to think critically about things. This world is full
of deceptions for sure. Like you, I sigh (dropped jaw and head
shaking) in exasperation when I see Watchdog and hear about
the countless scams that exist to prey on the needy. I'll
speak for myself. My business is not one of them! Established
hypnotherapists generally don't remain established
hypnotherapists by scamming people. We prosper by word of
mouth. We get results and people tell other people about us.
Most of us take our reputation and our business very seriously
indeed. It is of fundamental importance to me to maintain
maximum integrity at all times. I'll tell you straight out. I
couldn't and wouldn't do the job if it didn't do "what it
says on the tin". I value integrity too much.
It's herein
that my point really lies. Because we have been culturally
misled to think that hypnosis is some kind of magic wand which
will turn water to wine (or onions to apples depending on
who's show you watched!), we then throw the baby out with the
bath water, and write the whole thing off as a bad lot. As
level headed people, we say "I don't believe
it"...and by extension that becomes "I don't believe
in hypnosis or hypnotherapy....it's a load of rubbish".
This is a mistake, because when hypnosis is better understood
as the tool it really is (and it is ONLY a tool), then we can
begin the practical task of putting it to work in our lives.
So, I have added this page in an effort to put some of the
misinformation and the misunderstandings about hypnotherapy to
rest so we can all get on with improving things.
OK. So. To
the question of "Does hypnosis/hypnotherapy really
work?"
Well, I have
already added a page with regards to Stage Hypnosis which
answers this question pretty thoroughly when it is asked of
Stage Hypnosis. You can access that by clicking here.
For this page
however I am asking what of hypnosis as a therapy? Again the
answer is yes, hypnotherapy really does work (as a therapy).
What is worth understanding though is that hypnosis alone is
not a therapy. Hypnosis has some therapeutic value because it
often involves relaxation (but it doesn't have to...we can be
hypnotised without relaxation too.) It is the therapy which is
applied in hypnosis that creates the transformation. Pretty
much anyone can learn to do hypnosis. Hypnosis is based on a
mutual contract. What happens is that the hypnotisee says to
the hypnotist "I would like you to hypnotise me."
The hypnotist says "Sure...just follow my
instructions" Here you have a contract. What has happened
here is that the hypnotisee gives permission to the hypnotist
to guide him into a pleasant state of awareness which the
hypnotist then proceeds to do via the use of
"suggestion". So a typical hypnotic induction
involves the focusing of the hypnotisee's awareness on a
single idea. So the hypnotist might say:
"I'd
like you to listen carefully to the sound of the music you can
hear (I will be playing gentle music in the room), and I
wonder if you can just simply follow the notes very
closely......just noticing how relaxing it is to simply notice
the notes making the music...maybe even becoming aware of the
rising and falling tones....soft tones...some people even say
that they can have a sense of being able to picture those
notes visually, and if you can do that then that's wonderful
but you know however you follow those notes with your
awareness is just fine....it's only really necessary that you
know you can enjoy focusing on the sound of that music which
can sound so comfortable to your ears...can remind you of how
it does feel when you are at your most relaxed.....and whilst
you're thinking about that perhaps you might also just notice
the feel of the soft couch beneath you supporting you.....and
if you'd like to...you can relax even more deeply into that
soft couch.... feeling the comfort of letting go...whilst
still being aware of those soft tones you can hear in the
music...which can continue to relax your mind and your
body....."
So what is
happening now is that I am simply "suggesting" to
the hypnotisee that they might like to focus on the single
idea of pleasant sensations. The music acts as a distraction
of sorts but this is not really important. We could work
without music. All that is important is that we are focusing
the mind - directing attention. What we are doing together is
eliminating the mental chatter, the sense of having thoughts
and feelings which are "scattered". Whilst
eliminating the "chatter" we are replacing that
scattered focus with soothing thoughts and images. In
practice, this is what hypnosis is. Deep Imaginative
Involvement. Focus. A single idea. The hypnotist acts as a
facilitator. The word facilitator has it's roots in Latin (as
do many English words) coming from the word "Facias"
(In Spanish and French - Facil/e), meaning to "make
easy". So now you can begin to see that our job is to
"make easy" the process of accessing ones own inner
focus; ones own calm and peace. As the hypnotisee becomes more
and more relaxed, or even just more focused, then we have a
state of mind which is "focused" for positive
intervention.
Have you ever
had an argument with someone, and then because you have been
"emotionally aroused" have found yourself unable to
acknowledge any of their points even though you know they are
making sense? I expect most people have done so. The brain
processes information irrationally when it is overheated by
emotional arousal. The brain blocks solution when it is
emotionally aroused. The brain doesn't really consider new
information when it is emotionally aroused. So the process of
de-arousing the emotionality and overheating taking place in
an anxious or depressed persons brain is healing in and of
itself! At this point we have hypnosis, and although hypnosis
alone is not truly therapeutic in the long term, it is
pleasant and can certainly help a great deal in the short term
by creating tranquility where there was chaos. I hope by now
I'm beginning to address some of those misunderstandings...no
clucking chickens yet!
Now it's here
that all the good stuff happens. Let me explain something.
Hypnotherapists are primarily therapists. We are hypnotists
too, but much more important in the list of priorities is that
we are therapists. So if you believe in psychotherapy, CBT,
NLP, or counselling then you believe in hypnotherapy, because
we use the same principles of therapy in hypnotherapy. In
fact, and in practice, we borrow techniques and models from
many different therapeutic fields. So hypno-therapy is therapy
applied under hypnosis, and for me this is where it becomes
really interesting. During my sessions, the first part of any
session involves some talking to find out where the session
needs to be focused for maximum benefit today. Often it will
become apparent that there may be an area that a client is
aware of as being a problem but has found that their mind is
being naturally unsupportive in this regard. We might talk
this over a bit, and it is not unusual for the client to say
"Yes, I know I could find the courage to win (or fail
even!) BUT.....I can't because" I call this the
"Yes, but..." syndrome. "But" is a
deletion word. "Yes, but" means "I didn't
actually register all the words that went before
"but". It has the effect of deleting the solution
because often the solution comes before the "but".
All the mind sees is the "I can't because..." Now
this is interesting because this is where hypnotherapy does
its best work. I borrow here from Dave Elman's (an incredibly
kind and very skilled medical and dental hypnotist now sadly
departed) famous book "Hypnotherapy". He tells us: -
'Hypnosis
is a state of mind in which the critical faculty of the human
is bypassed, and selective thinking established.' The critical
faculty of your mind is that part which passes judgment. It
distinguishes between the concepts of hot and cold, sweet and
sour, large and small, dark and light. If we can bypass this
critical faculty in such a way that you can no longer
distinguish between hot and cold, sweet and sour, we can
substitute selective thinking for conventional judgment
making."- Dave Elman.
What this
means in plain English is that we can get around the
"Yes, but...." In other words we can establish
selective thinking. We can "choose" how we would
like to think about something. Isn't that an interesting
concept? Isn't it simple? This then is hypnotherapy. Choosing
to think about something differently. Ordinarily one might
like to do so but one finds that the mind is blocked by a
"yes...but". Here though we find that once in
hypnosis the "yes...but" is far less active. Why?
Well, it has to do with distraction, relaxation, and deep
clarity. When the mind is relaxed then your system decides
that you are not under any threat. You simply would not be
relaxed if your life was endangered. Therefore it is
considered "safe" to be in the environment you are
in and furthermore, if you have a good therapist you should
feel not only safe but also supported so now the mind is
opening to receive support too. In hypnosis, the
"yes...but" part of your mind, the critical
conventional judgment making part of your mind is simply
"resting" shall we say. It is a pleasant experience
to find that voice soothed and co-operative. Let us be clear
though that in hypnosis there is always still a part of you on
the look out for anything dangerous or unreasonable. Of course
if you are working with a good therapist then in all
likelihood they are going to be working with you gently and
ethically anyway so you would not expect to ever hear a
suggestion which wasn't to your benefit, but in putting your
mind at ease it is important to understand that one does not
simply act on or accept every suggestion that is made.
Remember we call this process "selective thinking"
which means that you "select" the thoughts and ideas
you wish to make use of, and anything not wanted is simply
disregarded. Hypnosis simply allows you to consider new
perspectives with the volume of the "critical" voice
significantly reduced. The practical net result of bypassing
the "critical" part of the mind in any case is that
"I can't...." can be replaced with "I
can...". I regularly see people coming in for the session
saying "I just can't.." and leaving saying
"Yes...I got it...I know what I'm going to do now!"
This is down to the hypnosis part of the session offering an
opportunity to go beyond the usual negative assumptions and
re-consider the situation or problem from a new perspective.
So without wishing to be dismissive about other therapies, it
is clear that hypnosis confers upon us a considerable
advantage over "talking" therapies because we can
bypass the part of the mind that is really causing the problem
(the critical part) and go straight to the deeper levels of
self. Some "talking" therapies try to use the part
of the mind which is the problem (the analytical/critical
mind- ever heard of analysis paralysis?) to solve the problem.
It can be done, but it is slow and often focuses on the
problem rather than the solution.
The British Medical Journal says the following about
hypnotherapy:
"There
is good evidence from randomised controlled trials that both
hypnosis and relaxation techniques can reduce anxiety…. They
are also effective for panic disorders and insomnia....A
systematic review has found that hypnosis enhances the effects
of cognitive behavioural therapy for conditions such as
phobia, obesity, and anxiety.”
So
hypnotherapy is an art and a science. Like all things, it is a
tool and the question of whether it works or not can be
answered with a clear yes, when it's used skillfully. Like all
tools hypnosis can be wielded clumsily (resulting in a messy
job) or with craftsmanship. I have years of learning how to
work skillfully with these tools, and naturally I take pride
in my work. Let's conclude by saying as I always do that
hypnosis involves the willing suspension of judgment, NOT the
complete suspension of reality! So I hope I've gone some way
to showing that fears and skepticisms are unfounded. Hypnosis
works if what you expect is some space to make some new
assessments, to re-view old memories and ideas and change what
you feel about them. Hypnosis works when you need to remind
yourself that you can do the things you haven't been willing
to permit yourself to try. It works when you need to stay
centered, or be more disciplined. It works when you need to
remind yourself there is hope, when you need to be kind to
yourself, when you need to remember there is peace available
somewhere within yourself. So when you ask the question
"Does it work?" we are also asking whether we'll
make it work for us. We have to work with it. It's not a magic
bullet (there is no such thing in life!). It doesn't make you
do what you don't want to do...or even what you can't be
bothered to do, but if you have decided you want to do
something....get fit, be happy, stop smoking, reduce your
drinking, get on an airplane again, be confident, ditch the
anxiety, break out of your depression, then hypnotherapy is
genuinely a great tool! Hypnotherapy can definitely help you
to do the things your mind says you can't and if you really
want to do it, then there is truly no better tool than the
power of your own mind on your side to make it happen! So I
hope I have addressed here at least some of the
misunderstandings surrounding hypnosis...what it is...and
perhaps more importantly, what it isn't.
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