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Most
people are familiar with self imposed limitation. We might decide that we
are unhappy in our job and want to find a new one. If we have a healthy
level of confidence, then that might sound like a good idea. All too often
though, the immediate response from our mind will be something like
"It might be worse if you go somewhere else to work......better the
devil you know.....you'll have to accept less money....it's just the same
wherever you go anyway!" Since there is a desire to change jobs then
all of these statements are negative programmes....blocks to change. Some
blocks we can easily overcome, but sometimes the negative emotional
response to change can be overwhelming.
When
there is a struggle for power between the will of the conscious mind and
the situation as perceived by the subconscious mind, the subconscious
invariably wins. This is because the subconscious mind is concerned with
protecting the organism, and where safety is concerned, instinct always overrides
the intellect. We know also that when danger is perceived, then
the subconscious mind necessarily sees (forecasts) the worst in any given
situation. If there is a problem with change therefore, where change is required or
desired, it will be because the subconscious believes the outcome will be
damaging to the organism in some way, even if this damage is purely
emotional (i.e I’ll be humiliated). Ordinarily, almost no amount of
kicking and screaming from our conscious mind (our ordinary
"will") can convince the subconscious that the outcome will be
any less disastrous than the subconscious clearly believes it will be, and
if our subconscious mistakenly believes that there is danger where there
is not, then we start to get problems. The subconscious mind will engineer
an “avoidance” mechanism which makes sure that we do not enter the
potentially dangerous situation again. This will range from making us feel
uncomfortable about entering a situation, which we might experience as a
sense of uncertainty and lack of confidence, right through to making it
downright impossible for us to do so……usually taking the form of
phobias, panic syndrome, anger, anxiety, depression, and in some cases
serious physical debilitation. The subconscious can produce very severe
symptoms as an avoidance mechanism.
Most
of the time the subconscious does a wonderful job of keeping us safe and
well, but by its very nature, and certainly with the best intentions, it
sometimes does more harm than good. This is particularly true where wires
are crossed as often is the case with phobic responses to harmless
everyday objects. Its purpose and intention however is to be our friend
and protector and it will oblige in helping us enormously when it
understands what we would like it to do for us. Hypnotherapy aims to
re-discover the limiting or symptom-causing belief system and re-frame it
so that the subconscious mind understands that the presenting symptom or
limitation is neither relevant nor necessary, and we can go further to
show it what we would like to achieve in place of that limitation.
Under
hypnosis we are able to bypass the usual instinctive distrust of the
situation in question by using relaxation and focus to show the
subconscious that the organism is safe and that there is another way to
view the situation. In other words, a skilled hypnotherapist is trained to
access the clients' subconscious belief system and re-write negative
beliefs with new, more positive and productive programmes. We know that
the language of the subconscious is imagination; or put another way, we
know that those things we imagine happening a certain way will conform to
our expectations emotionally and ultimately, as a result…in actuality.
So we achieve positive change by literally re-imagining the outcomes and
issues attached to any given circumstance. Emotive metaphor and suggestion
is used to create a new understanding of self at a conscious and
subconscious level. This process is not to be underestimated. It IS
actually how we live our lives. Our reality is dictated by our belief
systems at both a conscious and subconscious level. The absolute beauty
of this therapy is that not only can we alleviate painful or limiting
symptoms, we can also aid with improving performance and enjoyment in
almost all walks of life.

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